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Unhappiness is a misunderstanding.

Please stay tuned and join me
in this fun-da-mental challenge:

Welcoming simple words,
to dis-cover the gift of life.

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July 22nd, 2025

Happiness is our true nature,
without pre-conditions.

The root pain/veil is the belief in separation.

Shame, pride and embarrassment
is the fabric of the me-bubble,
resisting living inquiry.

July 20th, 2025

Enlightenment is a blindspot ‘me’ cannot detect, because ‘me’ itself is a mind-construct, a distraction from happiness and fulfillment.

In friendship, in good company, we can dis-cover what alone is too simple and thereby too scary.

We painfully learned – grew into – the sense of separation, and now we call it ‘normal’ or try to remedy its effects instead to dis-cover its one root.

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We are habituated to identify as ‘me’ – a mind construct, a hypnotism – that leaves very little inner space for love and wisdom.

We invested ourselves into becoming a good person, in finding fulfillment in circumstances, in overcoming suffering, in our spiritual quests; and this investment is part of the veil that seemingly separates us from the Love/Wisdom of Reality/God.

It is super embarrassing for the humble, proud or ashamed ‘me’ to simply relax attention into its source, to dis-cover that I am, neither person nor thing ❤️ but appear as such.

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What do you have to lose,
besides shame, pride,
and embarrassment:

It is only shame, pride, and embarrassment that prevents us from looking behind the me-mask; it is only shame, pride, and embarrassment that prevents us from learning to ask freedom-questions.

“Being is happiness, 
Being is shared.”

July 19th 2025

What are some basic wisdoms
(to break the ice, to provide avenues
for attention to travel back to its sOURce):

We can agree to disagree.
We have more in common than what separates us.

Life is not what I think it is.

All there is is Consciousness 
(Core concept of Advaita)

Consciousness in action is understanding;

Understanding in action is witnessing (Sākṣī).

I cannot be what I am aware of.
I am, but I don’t know what I am.

I cannot become what I eternally are.
Suffering and unhappiness require a me-story.

“I don’t know” is powerful =Reality/God (not-two).

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